Happiness is an internal job – many of us are searching outside for happiness and for someone to show us that we can be loved. We believe we have to work hard to find someone who will love and stay with us. We think they will bring us joy and happiness. Many of us believe that we don’t deserve love or we are not good enough or just too difficult, too old, too young, TOO…. to have someone special in our life. The truth is that these are thoughts that limit us and happiness is internal and available to everyone. We get what we focus on.